A
lawyer tested the Lord Jesus Christ saying, “Master, which is the
great commandment in the law? Jesus quoting from the Old Testament
(Deut. 6:5) said unto him, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with
all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is
the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it,
Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments
hang all the law and the prophets” (Matt. 22:35-40 KJV).
But
what is love?
Love
is an emotion that defies description in words, something that causes
us to move into action to do something good.
God
(Jesus Christ) commands us to love God first and,
second, to love our neighbor as ourselves.
In
the end, this really means that we should love everybody, even
our enemies. Indeed, Jesus Christ said, “Love your
enemies, do good to them which hate you, bless them that curse you,
and pray for them which despitefully use you” (Luke 6:27-28 KJV).
Why
did Jesus say, “love your enemies?” Because in those days, the
Jewish people hate the Romans - - their conqueror. However, with
the passage of time, some Romans, one of significant influence and
power being Emperor Constantine, was Christianized. He decreed that
the official religion of the Roman Empire was Christianity. Hence,
was born the Roman Catholic Church or what we call Catolico
Romano. These Romans learned to love the Christians and
vice versa.
Jewish
and non-Jewish (or Gentiles) are all God’s children through Faith
in Jesus Christ. “So you are all children of God through faith in
Christ Jesus. And all who have been united with Christ in baptism
have been made like him. There is no longer Jew or Gentile, slave or
free, male or female. For you are all Christians - - you are one in
Christ Jesus and now that you belong to Christ, you are the true
children of Abraham. You are his heirs, and now all the promises God
gave to him belong to you” (Galatians 3:26-29 NLT). When the Old
Testament was written, the Roman Empire was not yet in power. So,
there were no Roman Catholics, no protestants and the numerous
religions denominations that exist today. It was only during New
Testament times that believers of God and His Son Jesus Christ
designated themselves by their denominational names. But their
common denomination is CHRIST. Meaning, all believe in Christ as the
only begotten Son of God. Those religions who have other beliefs are
called, Anti-Christ. But whether, Jewish or Greeks or Gentiles,
Romans or not, whatever be their nationality, what is important is
they believe in Christ as the Son of God. These are all Christians,
the heirs of Abraham.
We
have also our enemies. The prophet Micah said, “a man’s enemy
are the men of his own house” (Micah 7:6). That is why some
married couple end up in divorce. They simply can’t love their
closest neighbor. When it should be the other way around. The wife
should be the best friend of the husband. The trouble with some
husbands is that they have other or many best friends which converts
their spouse into their worst enemy, thus ending in divorce, or it is
the other way around: the wife has other best friends also. For as
long as we live, we will have enemies. Plenty of them. Let us learn
from David when in the day that the LORD delivered him from the hand
of all his enemies, and from the hand of King Saul. He said: “I
will love thee, O LORD, my strength. The LORD is my rock, and my
fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength in whom I will
trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower.
I will call upon the LORD, who is worthy to be praised: so shall I
be saved from my enemies” (Ps. 18:1-3 KJV). David continued: “He
delivered me from my strong enemy, and from them which hated me: for
they were too strong for me…; he delivered me, because he
delighted in me (vs. 17, 19) he delivered me from mine enemies: yea,
thou liftest me up above those that rise up against me: thou hast
delivered me from the violent man” (vs. 48 KJV). In one sentence,
LOVE the LORD as he commands, then He will deliver us from all our
enemies. He is stronger than our strongest enemy. If we love the
LORD as he commanded, and our neighbor as ourselves, we can overcome
all our enemies, including our enemies in our own house! David said,
“Thou wilt show me the path of life: in thy presence is fullness
of joy; at the right hand there are pleasures for evermore” (Ps.
16:11 KJV).
A
command has to be followed whether we like it or not. Failure or
refusal to do so is disobedience with consequential penalty.
Micha’s
prophetic statement “a man’s enemy are the men of his own house
has been paraphrased by our Lord Jesus during New Testament times in
this manner: “And a man’s foes shall be them of his own
household” (Matt. 10:36 KJV). In our modern way of saying things,
this is how Micah conveyed his prophetic message: “Don’t trust
anyone - - not your best friend or even your wife! For the son
despises his father. The daughter defies her mother. The
daughter-in-law defies her mother-in-law. Your enemies will be
right in your own household” (Micah 7:5-6 NLT). I
personally believe that the word “household” is to be understood
in its generic meaning, not only literal. So, it may mean in your
own group or organization. Because who else knows your secret but
the one who knows you very well? Who knows us very well? Our best
friend, of course.
In
government or politics, Gov. Chavit Singson testified against Pres.
Erap Estrada, his close friend. Speaker De Venecia a close friend
for a while of Pres. Gloria Macapagal Arroyo during her
Administration, offered to testify against the latter, and this goes
on in our government today!
Kinds of Love
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Its
Characteristics
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1. EROS – sexual
love
2. FELEO – family
love
3. ASTERGO –
responsive love
4. NARCISUS –
self-centered love
5.PHILOS –
brotherly love
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a) Love described
in 1 to 5 says: “I love you if” (kung)
b) “I love you
because” (sapagkat)
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6. AGAPE – Divine
or God's love (eternal love)
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c) This kind of
love says “I love you in spite of” (kahit na). Agape
love is the highest and ultimate form of love. It is Christlike –
expecting nothing in return
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Agape
is a kind of love that is willing to die, so the love
one will live and be saved. No one has this kind of love, only God
(Jesus Christ) has it and he voluntarily (without being
asked) gave it by shedding his precious blood. This blood covers
the sin of all believers.
John
the beloved, the Apostle of Love, defines Love demonstratively. He
assumes this feeling or emotion by saying, “For God so loved the
world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever
believeth in him shall not perish but have everlasting life”
(John 3:16 KJV). And John continues by saying: “Beloved, let us
love one another: for love is of God; and everyone that loveth is
born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth not, knoweth not God;
for God is love” (1 John 4:7-8). How did God
manifest his love for man? John continued: “In this was
manifested the love of God toward us, because that God
sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through
him. Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us,
and sent his Son to be the propitiation (complete payment) for our
sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one
another” (1 John 4:7-11 KJV).
The
Apostle Paul uses the word “charity” in his attempt
to define love in 1 Cor. 13, the love chapter of the New Testament.
Why charity? Because charity is giving something
“without expecting anything in return”. That is
why we have charitable institutions who extend help to the needy.
These institutions don’t expect anything in return. Their giving
is an ultimate act of love. This is where we got the expression
“labor of love”, meaning we do something good for someone without
expecting to be rewarded or repaid. However, the Lord Jesus decreed
a reciprocal law that when we “give, and it shall be given unto
you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running
over, shall men give unto your bosom” (Luke 6:38 KJV).
Paul,
a lawyer, prolific writer of thirteen books of the New Testament,
almost half of the total 27 books of the NT, and a pharisee in his
time, in defining LOVE used ACTION words, like: “Love
is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or
rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and
it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad
about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never
gives up (or surrenders no matter what happens), never loses
faith, is always hopeful and endures through every
circumstance. Love will last forever… (1 Cor. 13:4-8 NLT).
“And now abideth faith, hope charity (Love), these three; but the
greatest of these is charity (Love)”. (vs. 13 KJV).
Paul
continues in Chapter 14 “Let love be your highest goal”
(vs. 1, NLT). In the KJV, “Follow after charity (Love)”. In
the NIV, “Follow the way of love . . .”. In the New King James
version (NKJ), it says, “pursue love” which is a command for
every believer. Those who experienced pursuing love in their
dealings have felt unspeakable joy in their heart.
Yes,
we can respond obediently to what our Saviour directs us to do. He
knows, though, that we are not capable of doing this on our own.
That’s why He has given us the Holy Spirit to empower us to a
life of loving obedience. With His help, we can learn to
love those we don’t like.
Love
is the greatest of all human virtues and qualities, and it is an
attribute of God himself (1 John 4:8). Give love, receive
love, give it away. If we give love, we shall receive love and
something more “in good measure, pressed down, shaken together and
running over” from God through men like us. The ultimate reward
from God, if we truly love God and our neighbor as ourselves is the
experience of unspeakable joy in our heart, and most
important of all, eternal life and abode with God in
heaven. (FGBMFI Davao City Chapter Bulletin Feb 18, 2012)
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