There
is a Tagalog (Pilipino) adage, “Kung
mayroon kang itinanim mayroon kang aanihin”
(in English “If you plant something you will also reap”.)
At
dawn (1:00 A.M.) of July 7, 2014 (Monday dawn in the Philippines),
our house beside the Davao City Foursquare Gospel Church, the first
Foursquare Church established in Mindanao by American missionaries
Rev. Arthur and Evelyn “Nanay” Thompson, in the early 50’s,
from whence came out almost two thousand daughter churches all over
Mindanao as of today, was cruelly gutted down by fire due to
electrical faulty wiring, so the Fire Department call it.
Among
the numerous treasures, beside the sentimental value of our home,
that I lost was a Mont Blanc
ball pen worth P20,000.00 (in pesos) given to me as gift many years
ago, by my youngest brother, Benigno “Benjil” D. Cariaga, IV.
Benjil, is the nickname given by our late mother to my brother who
was under my support from first year high school up to college,
because our father by then, have passed away. He worked for a time in
my modest law office as my clerk-typist up to the day that a client
asked me if he could employ him as clerk in his business enterprise.
Of course, I was only too glad to accommodate my client and release
my brother. Thereafter, he self-supported himself until he finished
his college degree in Commerce.
Then,
to cut a long story short, he was taken in by Sycip Gorres Velayo
Auditing Office. This prestigious auditing firm was the private
accounting firm engaged by then President of the Philippines,
Ferdinand E. Marcos. Not long after, the auditing firm sent him to
Saudi Arabia where until now he still works.
Without
my asking, many years before today, in one of his rare visit to the
Philippines, he gave me a Mont
Blanc ball pen worth at that
time, I was told, the equivalent of twenty thousand pesos as gift (in
Tagalog “pasalubong”).
The trouble with this ball pen is that its filler is worth a little
less than P400.00 and it is only available in Makati City in Metro
Manila, Philippines. For all the years that my youngest brother lived
and worked with me, he must have noticed that being a full-time busy
practitioner of the law profession, I earn my living by writing
numerous pleadings and letters everyday. I simply cannot go along
without writing almost everyday. Perhaps, I surmised, as his payment
for his debt of gratitude for his success in life for which I may
have contributed something, out of love, he gifted me with that most
treasured ball pen.
In
the book of Romans, it is said, “Owe no man anything, but to love
one another: …” In Pilipino language, “Huwag
kang mag-utang maliban sa utang na loob”.
My
sadness is beyond description in words when at early dawn on July 7,
2014, my most treasured ball pen turned into smoke and ashes when our
residential house which I built in seven years like the city of Rome,
got burned. This brother of mine was my companion in gathering the
special manggachapoy
lumber given by a client from Kialeg, Bansalan, Davao del Sur,
Philippines – a distance of more than 60 kms. from Davao City.
When
my brother learned from my daughter, Atty. Susan, that my most
treasured ball pen got burned, besides allegedly expressing his deep
sympathy with a sob, he committed to send a replacement. Indeed, by
the second week of September 2014, a package arrived with a ball pen
exactly
the same as the one that was burned. I was told, the cost was now the
equivalent of thirty thousand pesos. My joy is beyond expression in
words. Praise God! I used it to write the draft of this article.
The
wise king Solomon said, “Cast your bread upon the waters, for after
many days you will find it again” (Ecclesiastes 11:1 NIV). When I
supported my brother in his quest for education because he was only
twelve years old when our father have gone to be with our LORD, I
spent for his education without expecting anything in return. This,
to me, was “casting my bread upon the waters”. When a literal
bread is thrown upon the waters, of course, we don’t expect it to
be fit for food again, but it is lost forever. But to me, there is a
spiritual meaning of “for after many days you will find it again”.
Yes, I have found my treasured Mont
Blanc “after so many days”.
My brother is now in
his 40’s but still he is working in Saudi. Perhaps he is a
diligent worker so that his employer kept him there for good.
I
have seven brothers and a sister. Our eldest was supported by me
financially in his 4th
year in college because his girlfriend suddenly arrived at his
dormitory and refused to “go home” so my brother was forced to
marry her. Since then my father was discouraged, and I had to stop
going to school to allow him to continue his studies. Praise God, all
their four children are now professionals, two are abroad and are
gainfully employed; one work with a solid prestigious commercial bank
in the Philippines, and the youngest is a Civil Engineer employed in
the DPWH in our Philippine government.
My
seven younger siblings were financially supported by me also in their
quest for educational degree because our father who was a Principal
in the public school, the only bread earner in our big family, had
passed away.
Again,
the wise King Solomon continued, “Give portions to seven, yes to
eight, for you do not know what disaster
may come upon the land” (Ecclesiastes 12:2 NIV).
When
I helped my eight siblings in their quest for education, I had no
idea as to who will respond to me in my time of “disaster”. And,
of course obviously, I did not know that someday my own family will
be a “fire victim”. Out of them all, only one responded - the one
who gave me my treasured ball pen. The rest (three of whom have
already passed away), merely visited me expressing their deep
sympathy, nothing more nothing less. Praise God anyway. That is
enough moral support and consolation to me.
I
am reminded of the story in the Bible of ten Jewish lepers who were
healed by our Lord Jesus Christ. After they were healed, they
excitedly ran to report their healing to the priest as instructed by
the LORD Jesus. Only one of them, a Samaritan at that (a non-Jew),
came back to thank the Lord Jesus. Whereupon the Lord Jesus asked,
“Were there not ten of you who were healed, where are the nine?”
Nothing more I can add or subtract.
The
Bible indeed is true. The Lord Jesus said, “Give, and it shall be
given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and
running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you
use, it will be measured to you” (Luke 6:38 NIV). Plant now as much
as you can and later you will reap abundantly.
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